by Melvin Molina
I grew up as the youngest of seven siblings—six boys and a girl—in a big family. My childhood memories of my father were far from ideal.
He worked overseas throughout my elementary and college years, and during his vacations, he often spent his time drinking with friends.
When he returned home, he was usually drunk and would verbally and physically abuse my mother. Those were the painful images imprinted in my young mind.
During my school years, I wasn’t the best student. I surrounded myself with friends who weren’t the best influence, but despite that, I made a promise to my mom and myself never to have vices like smoking or drinking.
I kept that promise, though I was still very attached to my friends, often staying out late while they drank and smoked. I also developed a habit of cursing and got involved in gambling.
I lived a double life—pretending to be one person at home while being someone entirely different outside.
Over time, the façade left me feeling empty. I longed for the happiness that could only come from having a loving relationship with my father and a peaceful family life.
After graduating from college, I started working to help my family financially. Yet, that persistent sense of emptiness followed me, stemming from my high school years. I tried to ignore it, but it wouldn’t go away.
I eventually enrolled in a professional caregiving course, planning to work overseas. That’s when I met Uni, the woman who would change my life.
Although we were in different class schedules, fate brought us together during our on-the-job training. I expressed my interest in courting her, but her sisters weren’t initially in favor.
Uni invited me to attend a Christian church, and I agreed, hoping to win her approval. She also sent me daily Bible verses, which brought an unexpected joy into my life.
I didn’t realize it at the time, but God was already working in my heart. The emptiness I had felt for so long finally began to fade.
On October 7, 2007, I accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior, and in February of 2008, Uni and I officially became a couple.
We got married in 2010, and a year later, we welcomed our son. In December 2016, we attended Christ’s Commission Fellowship (CCF) Cainta, and that first experience reignited my passion for serving the Lord.
We joined a small group led by Pastor Ariel Guinto and eventually started leading our own group of young couples. We were also invited to serve in the Council of Servants (COS), a great privilege that opened doors for us to disciple others.
Today, our Discipleship Group (DGroup) members are leading their own groups, and we remain part of the COS.
I have had the honor of participating in pastoral care, including child dedications, wake services, premarital counseling, and speaking at church events.
Most of all, I’m overjoyed that my entire family is serving in ministry together. My wife and I coordinate Across Ministries in our local church, and our 13-year-old son leads a discipleship group of young students in Elevate Mini.
Even more, my parents have accepted Jesus and now regularly attend Sunday services.
Recently, my niece and her family expressed their desire to attend church as well.
None of this would have been possible had I not opened my heart to the gospel.
God used my wife to lead me to Him, filling the void that had haunted me for so long. Though the road ahead may be challenging, I hold fast to God’s promise in Hebrews 13:5: “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”
One day, I hope to hear Him say, “Well done, my good and faithful servant… Enter into the joy of your Master.” (Matthew 25:23)
I am Melvin Molina, once lost, now found, and saved by Christ’s grace. To Him be all the glory and honor.
MELVIN MOLINA and his wife Uni are currently the overall coordinator of Across Ministries in CCF Cainta, and they are also part of the COS (Council of Servants).
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